Wise Old Words From Ireland For Mother’s Day

Wishing all mothers of the world a very happy Mother’s Day this weekend. Although this holiday is celebrated on different days throughout the world,  this weekend let’s all join American families as we honor our mothers with our sincerest sentiments of love and gratitude.

To mark this day I thought I might share some Irish wisdom on motherhood and some Irish blessings for Mother’s Day. Our mothers are a precious gift from God.  So together let’s celebrate their selfless, unconditional love.

Some of these quotes are nostalgic and sentimental in the style of years gone by.  One is written for mothers-to-be. Kavanagh’s poetic words memorialize his mother.  One excerpt even explores the notorious Irish Catholic style of mothering, but all pay well-deserved tribute to mothers everywhere.

I hope you enjoy these quotations as much as I enjoyed gathering them.

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“This heart, my own dear mother, bends,

With love’s true instinct, back to thee!”

~ Thomas Moore.

 

 

“All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy.

No man does. That’s his.”

~ Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest, 1895

 

 

“A man loves his sweetheart the most,

His wife the best,

And his mother the longest.”

~ Old Irish Saying

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“A mother holds her children’s hands for a little while,

But their hearts forever.”

 

~ Unknown (I’m not sure if this is originally an Irish saying,

but it is so lovely I just had to include it.)

 

 

“Tis the month of Mary,

Blessed Queen of the May,

Mother of God we pray you,

Bless and protect all mothers,

On this their special day.”

~ Irish Prayer

 

 

“May embers from the hearth warm your hands,

May sunshine from an Irish sky warm your face,

May a child’s bright smile warm your heart,

And may everlasting love warm your soul.”

~ Irish Blessing

 

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“There is but one and only one,

Whose love will fail you never.

One who lives from sun to sun,

With constant fond endeavor.

There is but one and only one.

On earth there is no other.

In heaven a noble work was done,

When God gave us a Mother.”

~ Old Irish Verse

 

 

“Mothers all want their sons to grow up to be president, but

they don’t want them to become politicians in the process.”

~ John Fitzgerald Kennedy

 

 

“Whatever else is unsure in this stinking dunghill of a world,

a mother’s love is not.”

~ James Joyce

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“May the emerging spirit of your child

Imbibe encouragement and joy

From the continuous music of your heart,

So that it can grow with ease,

Expectant of wonder and welcome

When its form is fully filled…..

 

And it takes its journey out

To see you and settle at last

Relieved, and glad in your arms.”

 

 ~ John O’Donohue - To Bless The Space Between Us

 

 

A mother’s love’s a blessing,

No matter where you roam.

Keep her while she’s living,

You’ll miss her when she’s gone.

Love her as in childhood,

Though feeble old and grey,

For you’ll never miss a mother’s love,

Till she’s buried beneath the clay.”

 

~ Thomas P. Keenan from the song  A Mother’s Love’s A Blessing.

 

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” “All that praying you made us do,” complained Maggie.

“And making us go to Mass. And starving us on Good Friday…

And makind us feel ashamed of our bodies

and guilty about absolutely everything.

No, Ma, you were the pits.”

Nuala glowed with pride, truly she had been the best of Catholic mothers.”

 

~ Marian Keyes

Excerpt from Late Opening At The Last Chance Saloon.

 

 

“I do not think of you lying in the wet clay

of a Monaghan graveyard; I see

you walking down a lane among the poplars

on your way to the station, or happily

 

going to second Mass on a summer Sunday–

you meet me and you say:

“Don’t forget about the cattle–”

among your earthiest words the angels stray…..”

 

~ Patrick Kavanagh

Excerpt from his poem In Memory Of My Mother.

 

 

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“God made a wonderful mother,

A mother who never grows old:

He made her smile of the sunshine,

And he moulded her heart of gold;

In her eyes He placed bright shining stars,

In her cheeks fair roses you see;

God made a wonderful mother,

And He gave that dear mother to me.”

 

~ Pat O’Reilly

Excerpt from his poem Wonderful Mother

 

 

 

Lá Na Máithreacha Sona Daoibh!

(Happy Mother’s Day)

 

Irish American Mom

 

 

 

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Happy Easter To All

Wising everyone around the world a very happy Easter on this Sunday, March 31, 2013.  Today many of us will gather with our loved ones to celebrate new beginnings, renewal and the resurrection of Jesus.  I hope this weekend you too have the opportunity to be with your loved ones.  For those who can not be with family, may the blessings of Easter bring you peace and joy.

Here is a beautiful Irish blessing to help us embrace the spirit of Easter.

 

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“At the breaking of the Easter dawn

May the Risen Savior bless your home

With grace and peace from above,

With joy and laughter, and with love;

And when night is nigh, and day is done

May He keep you safe from all harm.”

 

I pray this Easter may be a time of renewal for each and every of one us, when we find direction and meaning in our lives, no matter the trials we have overcome nor the discoveries that lie before us.

 

 

Beannachtaí na Cásca Oraibh

(Easter Blessings)

Irish American Mom

 

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The Irish Psyche And Sigmund Freud

The Irish psyche is a deep topic for a blog post on the day after St. Patrick’s Day, when many facets of said psyche were on display all over the world.  As I did a little research for this post I came across a quotation attributed to the father of psychoanalysis himself, Sigmund Freud.

In the movie The Departed, Matt Damon’s character claims that Freud said:

 

“This is one race of people for whom

psychoanalysis is of no use whatsoever.”

- Sigmund Freud (about the Irish)

 

Some claim this Freudian quotation was derived from a phrase by one of his followers.  This student of Freud claimed that the Irish, when in psychic trouble go to poetry, go to storytelling, or to escapism.  He believed the Irish have no interest in picking apart their own brains.

Freud is also claimed to have stated that the Irish are a mass of contradictions and impervious to the rational thought processes that might resolve them.

And finally another follower of Freud supposedly said the Austrian doctor categorized people as “Irish and non-Irish.”

Whether or not Freud actually said these words, we may never know.  However  it seems clear that the Irish psyche was at some point a topic of conversation for this famous psychiatrist and his students.

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The real question for me is why Freudians were so intrigued by the Irish psyche?

 

What characteristics of the Irish people led them to these conclusions? 

 

What exactly did Freud mean?

 

Was it said as an insult, a compliment or neither?

 

My proud Irish side wants to answer by saying we are too fine tuned to benefit from inward thinking, or perhaps we are just too complex for analysis.

But then there is my down-to-earth, practical Irish side that realizes we don’t do psycho anything very well.  We hate to share our emotions, we are ridden with guilt, and believe life’s fleeting fortunes are precursors to inevitable doom and gloom.

Let’s face it, no psychoanalyst is getting inside my Irish head – there’s barely enough room for my thoughts in here.

Irish people are stubbornly polite.  Saying what we think is difficult at times, but then in complete contrast there are times when we can’t stop talking and saying exactly what we think.  We are a mass of contradictions.

Words that come to mind to describe our nature are stubborn, humble,  explosive, friendly, bad-tempered, humorous, hardassed and artistic.  See what I mean?  A mass of contradictions.

And so this got me thinking about all the factors which helped form our elusive Irish psyche over the centuries.

 

Is their something about our Irishness begging to be explored?

 

Is there a story of Irish psychological development crying out to be told?

 

What is it about the Irish and our personality that makes us different and possibly unique?

 

Why did so many Irish succeed in America?

 

Do we really put the FUN in DYSFUNCTIONAL?

 

Can Irish proverbs help us better understand our collective psyche?

 

And so I decided why not create a section on my blog dedicated to discussing the Irish psyche.

But am I qualified to talk about this topic authoritatively?  Not in the least. Pychoanalysis is definitely not my realm of expertise. My degrees are in physical health and well being. But why let that stop me.  I’m going to take on the topic of the Irish psyche in true narcissistic, Freudian fashion.

I may not hold any psychology credentials but I have been educated in the school of life on both sides of the Atlantic, helping me to develop my own opinion of the Irish psyche.  I may not be able to personally answer all of these questions, but I can moderate a good discussion, and together who knows what insights and stories we may discover.

So stay tuned for more interesting posts on the Irish psyche.

 

Slán agus beannacht leat!

(Goodbye and blessings)

Irish American Mom

 

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This New Year I Hope You Dance As If No One Is Watching

On this the first day of 2013 many are waking up with a keen determination to stick to New Year’s resolutions.  Some choose one lofty goal, others take on the world with a lengthy list of drastic lifestyle changes they truly believe will create inner happiness.

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I like the idea of commitment to personal goals, a time of reformation in anticipation of new beginnings.  The issue I see is too much focus on problems.  Committing to a whole year of trying to attain the impossible, usually turns out to be just that, impossible.

And so this year I am making no promises.  I don’t plan to berate myself for the extra ten or twenty pounds I probably should try to shed.  I will not feel guilty for my poor house keeping skills.  Instead I will enjoy playing with my children, content my house will probably never be tidy again – well at least until my foursome leave for college.

I could make a resolution to be more resolute in my blogging efforts, but again I know I would only disappoint myself and you.  So please, forgive me when you visit, and I have failed to add a new post.  I’ll do my best to ramble away and cook up a good old Irish American feast this year, but I’ll make no promises about daily postings.

And so instead of setting myself up for failure this year, I am going to focus on one of my favorite old Irish sayings throughout the year.

In 2013 I hope you will join me, and …….

 

 

Dance as if no one is watching.

Sing as if no one is listening.

And live every day as if it were your last.

 

Wishing you all a wonderful year of happiness, peace and prosperity.

 

 

AthBhlian Faoi Mhaise Daoibh

(A Prosperous New Year To All)

 

Irish American Mom

 

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Irish Wisdom – The Power Of Friendship (Part 2)

In the Irish Celtic tradition there is a beautiful understanding of the power of friendship – a deep, spiritual belief in the importance of connection, trust and openness between two friends.

In part 1 of this series on Irish Wisdom And Friendship, we explored many old Irish sayings which emphasize the bonds of friendship.  Today, in part 2, I thought I might share some beautiful quotations from some of Ireland’s most influential scholars and writers.

 

Quotations From John O’Donohue:

 

John O’Donohue (1956-2008), author of the international best-seller Anam Cara, believed in divine, soulful friendship.  Anam Cara literally means ‘soul friend.’  Here are some of my favorite quotations from his profound writings:

 

 

“Real friendship or love is not manufactured or

achieved by an act of will or intention. Friendship is

always an act of recognition.”

 

- John O’Donohue from Anam Cara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom

 

 

“Your noble friend will not accept pretension but will

gently and very firmly confront you with your own

blindness. Such friendship is creative and critical;

it is willing to negotiate awkward and uneven

territories of contradiction and woundedness.”

 

- John O’Donohue from Anam Cara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom

 

“One of the tasks of true friendship is to listen

compassionately and creatively to the hidden

silences. Often secrets are not revealed in words,

they lie concealed in the silence between the words

or in the depth of what is unsayable between two

people.”

 

- John O’Donohue from Anam Cara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom

 

Quotations From William Butler Yeats:

 

 

“Choose your companions from the best;

Who draws a bucket with the rest,

Soon topples down the hill.”

 

- William Butler Yeats

 

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“Think where man’s glory most begins and ends,

And say my glory was I had such friends.”

 

- William Butler Yeats

 

 

“There are no strangers here,

Only friends you haven’t yet met.”

 

- William Butler Yeats

 

Quotations From Oliver Goldsmith:

 

 

 

“Pity and friendship are two passions incompatible with each other.”

 

- Oliver Goldsmith

 

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“Friendship is a disinterested commerce between equals:

love, an abject intercourse between tyrants and slaves.”

 

- Oliver Goldsmith

 

 

Quotations From Oscar Wilde:

 

 

“Laughter is not at all a bad beginning for a friendship,

and it is far the best ending for one.”

 

- Oscar Wilde

 

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“An acquaintance that begins with a compliment

is sure to develop into a real friendship.”

 

- Oscar Wilde

 

My Favorite Quotation Of All:

 

 

“But the greatest love: the love above all loves,

Even greater than that of a mother…

Is the tender, passionate, undying love,

Of one beer drunken slob for another.”

 

~ Irish Ballad

 

 

Slán agus beannacht leat!

(Goodbye and blessings)

 

 

Irish American Mom

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