We don’t appreciate what we have until it’s gone! This old Irish saying, "You'll never miss the water till the well runs dry," is one of those sayings that hits you right in the tea and toast, because it speaks to a truth we’ve all lived through: you never truly appreciate something until it’s gone.
Be it love, health, peace and quiet, or the neighbour’s Wi-Fi you were secretly using—once it’s gone, you’re left staring into the metaphorical empty well, wondering why you didn’t value it while it lasted.

Let’s put it another way:
It’s as true as the rain on Paddy’s Day—inevitable and slightly annoying.
It’s as true as your mother ringing just when you sit down to eat—never fails.
It’s as true as a dog showing up when food hits the floor—God bless their timing.
The Meaning
In plain terms, it’s about taking things for granted. Be it fresh water from the well, a good friend, a steady job, or even your mother’s Sunday roast, we often don’t realize their value until they’re gone.
It’s only when the well is bone-dry and you’re gasping for a drop that you start wishing you’d looked after it better.
The Origin
Now, this bit of wisdom didn’t just drop out of the sky like an Irish drizzle.
Wells were once the lifeline of rural Irish communities – the source of fresh water for cooking, cleaning, and keeping the tea flowing (a matter of national importance, I might add).

When a well dried up, it was a calamity of biblical proportions, sending the whole household into a tizzy. And so, the phrase was born, as a stark reminder to cherish what’s keeping you afloat before it disappears.
The Life Lessons – Listen Up, You Might Learn Something!
Mind What You Have – Whether it’s good health, a loving family, or a fine head of hair, look after it. Nothing lasts forever (except, perhaps, an Irish grudge).
Don’t Be a Stingy with Gratitude – Tell people you appreciate them before it’s too late. A kind word today is better than an apology tomorrow.
Save for a Rainy Day – Be it money, resources, or energy, don’t wait till you're up the creek without a paddle to wish you’d been smarter.
Look After Your Blessings – Whether it’s a sturdy roof, a warm meal, or a decent pair of shoes, don’t take them for granted. Just ask anyone who's had their umbrella turn inside out in an Irish storm – you'll miss it soon enough!
Apply It to Everything – That job you moan about? That pub you think will always be there? That old friend you keep meaning to call? Mind them well, because they won’t be there forever.
Final Words
So there you have it – a timeless nugget of Irish wisdom wrapped in a bit of craic. The lesson? Stop whinging, appreciate what you have, and for heaven’s sake, don’t let the well run dry!

Slán agus beannacht,
(Goodbye and blessings)
Mairéad -Irish American Mom
Pronunciation - slawn ah-gus ban-ock-th
Mairéad - rhymes with parade
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