What’s Meant For You Won’t Pass You By

"What’s meant for you won’t pass you by" is one of those classic Irish sayings that wraps wisdom and comfort in a cozy, reassuring hug.

It’s the kind of thing your granny would say while stirring a pot of stew, or what your mam might mutter when you’re freaking out over a job interview, a missed bus, or a dodgy date.

The meaning? Simple - if something is truly meant for you, it’ll find its way to you, no matter what. If the job, the opportunity, or the love of your life is meant to be, then no amount of bad timing, missed chances, or sheer stupidity on your part can stop it from happening.

Now, imagine young Seán is pining after Mary from down the road, convinced she’s the only woman for him. But alas! She runs off with a fella who owns a tractor and a fine herd of cattle.

Seán is devastated—sure he thinks life is over. But a year later, wouldn’t you know it, he meets a girl who loves hurling, Guinness, and doesn’t mind his questionable dance moves. Suddenly, it all makes sense. Mary wasn’t meant for him—this new girl was!

And remember, this saying isn’t just for love. Maybe you miss out on a job, only to get a better one six months later.

Maybe you’re raging because you lost your keys, but it turns out that delay saved you from an absolute downpour outside.

The Irish believe that things have a way of working out, even if you can’t see it in the moment.

So next time you’re worrying that life isn’t going to plan, take a deep breath, have a strong cup of tae, and remember: "What’s meant for you won’t pass you by." And if it does? Well sure, maybe it wasn’t worth the hassle anyway!

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